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If the perfect relationship keeps eluding you, change your dating technique and bring in the New Year with The Four Man Plan. After years of dating ‘Mr Wrongs’, Cindy Lu, author and creator of the Four Man Plan decided to change her dating technique. She devised the Four Man Plan which as the name suggests, involves dating several men at the same time with total honesty, but sleeping with none of them. You keep track of your potential suitors and wait until the one you want asks you for exclusivity. With her honesty, frankness, humour and sound advice, her book is a must-read for any single woman looking for her ideal man. We spoke to Cindy to find out more about The Four Man Plan and how it works. “My ultimate wish for any girl who does the Four Man Plan is that she ends her run on the gerbil wheel of love,” she says. “By the end of it you will have gained a deeper understanding about how much power you have within relationships, and changed how you perceive men and dating.” Read on to find out how The Four Man Plan could help you find your ‘other half’ in 2010. Change Your Dating Perspective
“The Four Man Plan will change how you think about dating and love,” explains Cindy. “It turns dating into a soul searching pleasure because it takes the focus away from finding a lifelong partner to deciding what it is you really want. Finding a man isn’t going to make you happy. Falling in love with yourself, being your own best date and your most natural self in every situation, regardless of the man sitting across from you at the dinner table, is what women really seek.” Brings Out The Chivalrous Side Of Your Men
“Once men know this is what you’re doing, they start competing for your affections and become more chivalrous,” explains Cindy. “It’s only in recent decades that men haven’t needed to compete for a woman’s affections. Remember Guinevere? Dance cards? Courtship? Somewhere in their DNA it comes naturally to them, the way that having many suitors eventually becomes natural to the Four Man Planner!” “If they aren’t interested, they will disappear without any drama, and if they are, they will need to ask for exclusivity rather than assume it. For a lot of Four Man Planner’s learning how to “halve” a man, as we call it, which is the simple act of telling a man that you are “dating”, is the hardest part at first. But you’ll be surprised at the positive reactions you get. The earlier it is done, the better because honesty takes the guesswork out of dating.” |
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