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Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that is counted counts. - Al |
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The Plan has hit the UK - and you can get it right here! I'm so excited that The Four Man Plan has found its way across the pond. The most exciting part is, I think you gals really get it and REALLY need it!
From what I hear so far, things are a little different over there. Tell me if I'm wrong, but I've been told that it goes something like this: girl goes to pub or club, girl meets boy, girl and boy drink several pints or shots, girl and boy start snogging or more and POOF! you have a new boyfriend for the night, a week, or however long it lasts. No "dates", no "asking out", no "getting to know each other". Can this be so? I'm sure it's a generalization, and to be perfectly frank, it's not so different from how a lot of folks find themselves in relationships here. But does that seem a bit random? Wouldn't it seem more likely to be a successful relationship if you meet a man by the light of day? I don't know, I kind of think it's a good idea to see if you can have a conversation with someone, and find out whether or not they are honest, loving and willing before locking on. Don't get me wrong, I did it the other way a bunch of times, to my deep misery.
The US 4MPlanners have been using The Plan to a great deal of success. Some find that their love lives are now manageable, make sense, more relaxing and most importantly FUN! And of course, many have found themselves that ideal man, some after just a few short weeks, some after 65 weeks of planning, since the US version came out! Join us in the FORUM, just click that big gray button on the left, and get all the dish, ask your questions and share your stories. I pop in almost everyday to give advice, though it is rivaled by the wisdom of your fellow 4MPlanners.
I'm so looking to hearing from you, I want to know EVERYTHING...and welcome you to the glory of The Four Man Plan! 
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Hello!
I haven't blogged in a while because I spend most of my time in the "FOURUM" reading up on juicy tidbits and doling out advice there. But I just HAD to report on our recent rash of success stories.
One of our Canadian 4MPlanners reported back after months of going AWOL that she finally decided on a winner, Funny Guy, who she's been blissfully in a relationship for the last eight months!
Aimee's dating adventures had the unusual challenge of trying to find her guy in a small Jewish community amongst men who knew each other. She even attended an event where a few of her guys were roaming around the same room! Her grandmother was thrilled to hear about the Four Man Plan, exclaiming that that was how she found Aimee's grandfather so many decades ago. The Four Man Plan is making courtship new again! After a few months, Aimee is settling in with her new squeeze, a DOCTOR! Matzletov!
Oboeplyer is a single mom and relatively new to our Forum. She was very clear on what she wanted and past experiences proved to be a great teacher for her. She could use every ounce of her knowing while doing the Four Man Plan and was sweetly surprised by Pirate's request to follow her heart so they could be exclusive. It's very new, but oh, so exciting!
My Dear Inky has been a loyal blogger for 41 weeks. That's right, 10 months on the Plan. She met Burrito a few months ago. He was a fantastic guy but needed "time" to work on himself after his last relationship. Inky took things slow, dated a Quarter Man here and there, focused on her work and her friends, gave him space, and then recently, he looked her in the eye to say, "I love you, Inky."
The Four Man Plan helped her in the patience department and revealed her true goddess self.
I'm so happy for all the women that have shared their stories. By my calculations, for every gal that enters the FOURUM there are at least 300 that we don't hear from. So for all you gals out there making the most of your love life, keep it up! The more you love yourself, the more you will be able to attract love from others, and that is one of the basic tenets of the 4 Man Plan.
Love to you all! |
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New to The Plan? Join the FORUM |
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Welcome! So I'm guessing there are lots of new 4MPlanners out there with lots of questions and stories to share. The real action is in the FORUM. We are seriously throwing down in there on every possible subject. We've got loads of SAMPLE SCRIPTS for everything from HOW TO HALVE A MAN (that's telling him your seeing other people) to how to date your friend's ex and still be a CHICK'S CHICK. We've got all kinds of new tips and addendums (in Articles by Cindy) like the new Principle #7, SAY THANK YOU OR I'LL SPANK YOU. I am handling many of the questions in the Forum PERSONALLY until I just can't no mo'. Being all married and a homebody these days, I can't give you gals the up to the minute advice on the whole scene out there like you can give each other. And I really LOVE hearing from you. Get out of the lobby and into the party that is the 4MP FORUM! (It's that big gray button on your left.) Love you!
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We, and by that I mean myself, the trusty Coach Lucy and our techie assistance have been working hard to continue to grow and improve "The Four Man Planet." AKA the website. AND NOW WE CAN CHAT!! Pop in and see if anyone's in there. It's still in it's embryonic and rather crude phases, but we hope to do weekly LIVE CHATS WITH ME and or COACH LUCY so you can ask your questions and share your 4MP goodies in oh-so-intimate chat room style. LIVE CHAT DATES AND TIMES TO COME!! |
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The FORUM is HEATING UP!! |
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Can I just say that, yeah, the TV interviews are great, hawking the book on the radio and doing newspaper articles is fun. The Glamour Magazine thing is very cool. But what I REALLY LOVE is the STINKIN' FORUM!! It is starting to really cook with lots of gals (and a guy) mixing it up, spilling their guts, and slapping their heads with big "Oh, I GET IT!!"s. I am a little bit of a freak for how many times I hop on line to see if there are any new posts because it's just SO JUICY. And I love that the Plan is being tested by so many different types of women (and that guy.) If your shy, poke around, I think all the big questions are getting asked and answered. But just know that right now, I still have time to give INDIVIDUAL ADVICE FOR FREE and I'm more than a little tickled to do it. The clock on that activity may be winding down so if you want to get your 4MPlanner bum smacked by the hand that created it, now's your chance. For those that have been throwing down, can I just say thank you, thank you for being so brave and curious and free with your wonderful tales from inside The 4MP. Keep it up!! Love you! Cindy Lu |
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So I'm back at my desk after spending two weeks visiting 4 very cool cities. San Francisco, Seattle (my old stomping ground), Denver and Phoenix.
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4MPlanners in the Public Eye |
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Hi All! It's Emmy weekend and The Four Man Plan found it's way into the gift bags. One of our newest 4MPlanners is a singer and has been conflicted about what to do about date requests from fans. This poses an interesting variable into The Plan. Will The Four Man Plan work if your famous? YES! |
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