Cindy Lu: The Original 4MPlanner – MARRIED!!

Our Wedding Dance in Vegas!

Now the book has only been out since September 4, 2007. But my little self published version managed to find it’s audience and success stories started rolling in…

Georgia: MARRIED after 1 semester on The 4MP

Georgia is in her late 50’s and has been married twice. Her first marriage lasted 14 years and ended in a painful divorce; the second time she was happily married for 17 years and until her husband died suddenly in 2003. She had been off the market ever since until…

“The Four Man Plan is brilliant. It turned out to be the most perfect way to ease out of the old life and find the new one. I gave everyone a chance and I had several possibilities working so I wasn't needy. I was happy and having a great time dating. In the end, romance prevailed!

So many, many thanks for your fun, funny and most effective wisdom. I hope all your other 4MPlanners can enjoy the process as much as I did. Thanks again. It really works!”—Georgia

Chelsea/Coach Lucy – LIVING WITH her 3 1/2 after 2 semesters on The Plan

Coach Lucy, aka "Chelsea" and her 3 1/2 Steve

Chelsea - aka Coach Lucy was in her 30’s and a very successful career girl when she started doing The Plan. She became my most diligent 4MPlanner and the first to input her Plan Men into her Mantris Graph using Excel! She blogged me weekly and every Monday morning I would wake up early and sit at my computer with a cup of tea, anxious to read the juicy details. Her first 3 1/2 Man did not work out, but her second is the real deal - they are celebrating their third anniversary this June!

“ Six months of following The Four Man Plan significantly changed the way I dated and seriously upgraded the caliber of men I attracted.  I behaved lighter on dates; I had so much fun, and (thanks to the Wait For Sex Index) I got to know each Plan Man so much more authentically than I had in the past.  In the end, it all led me to my handsome and affectionate 3 1/2 Man!”—Chelsea/Coach Lucy

Ellie – BACK IN ACTION and on her second semester on The Plan

Ellie is a 40 year old, newly single mom with two young kids. If you think you’ve been challenged in your love life, get a load of Ellie. After 15 years of marriage and raising two children together, her husband finally admitted to her that he was attracted to men--in other words, her husband was gay. KABOOM! Yeah, it actually happens. Ellie was devastated and began to question everything about herself. After months of reeling from the shock and wondering if she would ever be able embark on another relationship with a man, she found The Four Man Plan.

“Working  The Four Man Plan, I have learned to be more compassionate and patient with myself and men. Most importantly, I regained the self-confidence I lost while being in a marriage with a homosexual man. I get it now, and I don’t need a bunch of sex to prove to me what I already know – I am desirable, I am beautiful inside and out, I am worthy and I am a great catch!”—Ellie

Stella – LOVING HERSELF after 1 semester on The Plan

Stella is an actress and business owner in her 20’s. Stella’s use of The Plan was creative, erratic and fun, just like her. Before doing The Plan, her first and longest relationship had been with a man 20 years her senior. (Daddy?) Since then, none of her relationships had lasted longer than 3 months.

“The 4MPlan has helped me learn how to allow a relationship to unfold naturally and to respect myself and my body enough to not have to jump into bed. Having a variety of men in my life made it so I didn’t hyper-focus on someone who may or may not be a match for me. I can stand in my power and I get to decide. I am no longer losing who I am because I’m trying to morph into what I think any one particular guy wants me to be.

I am still learning and will probably take out the graph again soon! It is a great tool! But even better than the Mantris Graph are the lessons that are learned from throwing yourself into this new way of looking at and experiencing dating. I have not found my 31/2 man yet, but I am getting closer and the men that are coming to me are showing me how much I am changing. I promise that if you really do it you will reap amazing benefits!”—Stella

 FEBRUARY 2009 UPDATE:

There's almost too much activity to report on but some of our favorite Fourum girls that are now off the market. Divagrrl is now on her second and we're thing LAST 3 1/2 Man. Read his reactions to finding out about the Plan and how he thinks it helped him and Divagrrl find their way into each other's arms. Solinari and Tree are ENGAGED and moving onto a ranch together, so it works in small towns too! Springtime and Volleyball Guy are still going strong and talking about the future. Earl and I moved into our dream house last month and are more in love than ever. 

 All of our 4MPlanner's are having a great time sharing their stories and insights, laughing and loving in the Fourum. Please join us and get your questions answered and your head on straight. Bring intellegence to your emotions and watch your heart soar!

Purple Orchid finds her Funny Guy and proves that the 4MP works in Canada, too! Aimee takes her time, keeps her knees together and seals the deal with her 3 1/2 man in her small Jewish community. A doctor, no less! Single Mom Oboeplyer takes Pirate's suggestion to follow her heart and make him her guy. After 41 diligent weeks on the Plan, Inky hears those 3 little words from Burrito, a man who claimed he wanted a few months to "play the field" but ended up getting hooked on a 4MPlanner that played it cool and gave him his space. Read about these stories from beginning to end with advice from me and the other 4MPlanners in the "FOURUM!"

 JANUARY 2008 UPDATE:

Girls are closing deals right and left. After 18 diligent weeks on the Plan Divagrrl first spotted her match on match.com and then he saw her in person singing on stage and made contact. Springtime Jones met her man in the group she played volleyball with every week. Just goes to show you that a great way to meet Quarters that may become 3 1/2's is to keep busy doing the things you love. No man can resist a woman that's doing her thing! Read their stories in the FORUM...

The book has been out only 2 MONTHS and successful 4MPlanner's are popping up all over the place. Take a peek into our FORUM and read about Foolhardy realizing that her 3 1/2 Man was her Best Friend from high school! Motolady found her 3 1/2 on the internet! 4MPlanners are tearing it up and sharing their stories in touching, funny and sometimes very sexy detail. Get in on the action and JOIN the FORUM!